Next, I turned to self-care, something I had neglected for far too long. I joined a local gym, not necessarily to lose weight, but to regain my strength and confidence. Exercise became my therapy, a way to channel my emotions into something positive. With every drop of sweat, I felt a little lighter, a little more in control.
I also started attending a local support group. Listening to other women’s stories of overcoming adversity was inspiring and reminded me I wasn’t alone. Sharing my own experiences was cathartic and helped me process the pain and anger I had been harboring.
The final step of my plan involved a subtle but powerful statement. I organized a dinner party at our home, inviting the same guests from that disastrous evening. My husband, oblivious to my intentions, was eager to show off his hospitality.