I don’t usually let strangers get to me, but today almost pushed me over the edge. It started at the feed store when the clerk assumed I was lost and then asked if my “husband” would be loading my truck. I’ve been running my 240-acre ranch alone for years, fixing water lines, birthing calves, and hauling hay. Yet people still assume I can’t handle it because I’m a woman.
Even my neighbor, Roy, treats me like I’m pretending to be a rancher. I’ve patched his water line in a snowstorm, yet he still offers patronizing advice.
Then, I found a mysterious note nailed to my barn: “I know what you did with the west pasture.” That pasture is my pride and joy, which I’ve spent a year restoring after my ex-husband left. The note unsettled me, but I pushed it aside—until I found fresh footprints near the pond and scratches on the barn door the next morning. Someone was snooping around.
I went to Roy for help. He didn’t know anything but mentioned gossip about me switching buyers for my heifers. The next day, I found more signs of trespassing. A figure was caught trying to pry open the barn door, and I realized I wasn’t just dealing with a prank.
I told my friend Lucia about the situation, and she suggested it could be my ex-husband’s family trying to stake a claim. That night, I spotted someone snooping near the barn. After some investigation, I discovered it was a private property consultant hired by a company looking to buy up land for a new development. They were trying to scare me into selling.
With help from Roy and local law enforcement, we gathered enough evidence to expose the developer’s tactics. The harassment stopped, and I learned the value of asking for help.
From now on, I don’t let anyone’s assumptions get under my skin. I run this ranch on my own terms, and I’ve got the support of good people when I need it.
I hope this story shows that strength isn’t about doing everything alone—sometimes, the bravest thing is admitting you could use some backup.