On Tuesday, September 30, after 19 years of marriage, Nicole Kidman filed for divorce from Keith Urban.  The filing includes a marriage dissolution as well as a childcare plan agreed on by the couple. It has been submitted for a judge’s approval.

The celebrity couple shares two children, Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 14, and primarily lives in Nashville.

“The mother and father will behave with each other and each child so as to provide a loving, stable, consistent and nurturing relationship with the child even though they are divorced,” the permanent parenting plan said.

“They will not speak badly of each other or the members of the family of the other parent. They will encourage each child to continue to love the other parent and be comfortable in both families.”